Editing gay love out of one's story when young is a reasonable thing to do, given the state of the world then, and even now. But 20 years of marriage, 3 kids. WTF! Choosing rupture over rot: a Sophie's choice. Can't imagine the emotional and economic upheaval amongst the 4 of you. But it sounds like you all came out ok on the other side. Not by luck, but by strength of will, honesty, respect and love. Good on you
Editing gay love out of one's story when young is a reasonable thing to do, given the state of the world then, and even now. But 20 years of marriage, 3 kids. WTF! Choosing rupture over rot: a Sophie's choice. Can't imagine the emotional and economic upheaval amongst the 4 of you. But it sounds like you all came out ok on the other side. Not by luck, but by strength of will, honesty, respect and love. Good on you